To use a clitoral vibrator, apply a small amount of water-based lubricant to the surface of the vibrator and the clitoris. Gently start running the vibrator over the clitoris, either in a circling or up-and-down motion. Increase the intensity and pressure to find the right sensation. Once you’ve found a rhythm and intensity that feels pleasurable, you can use the vibrator in other areas of the body for even more pleasure. Experiment with different speeds and patterns, and remember that communication is key during partnered play.